Good Girls Don’t Win: The 7 Rules to Break the Chain and Achieve Your Full Potential

Since childhood, many women are taught to be “good girls.” Be polite. Be quiet. Be agreeable. Be what others expect of you. But here’s the truth: good girls don’t win. They stay trapped in chains of other people’s expectations, losing themselves in the process.

To rise into your full potential, you must unlearn the rules that kept you small and create new ones that set you free. Here are 7 rulers to break the chain:

1. Break the Rule of Silence

Stop apologizing for your voice. Speak your truth, even if it shakes the room. Your words have weight, let them echo.

2. Break the Rule of Approval

You don’t need everyone to like you. Approval is a chain. The more you chase it, the further you walk from yourself. Choose authenticity over acceptance.

3. Break the Rule of Perfection

Perfection is a prison. Mistakes are proof that you are trying, growing, and becoming. Own your flaws, they are part of your power.

4. Break the Rule of Waiting

Stop waiting for permission, the “right time,” or someone to save you. Act now. Move now. Build now. Your empire won’t wait.

5. Break the Rule of Smallness

Dim your light and the world grows darker. Take up space. Walk into the room like you belong; because you do.

6. Break the Rule of Fear

Fear will whisper: stay safe, stay quiet, stay the same. You must answer with courage: I was not born to hide, I was born to rise.

7. Break the Rule of Invisibility

Stop blending in. Let yourself be seen. Your presence is a force, and when you step into your full visibility, you give other women permission to do the same.

✦ The New Commandment: I Am The Imperatrix

When you break these rules, you are no longer just a “good girl.” You become a ruler of your own destiny …

unapologetic, unstoppable, undeniable.

Good girls don’t win. Women who rise, roar, and rule do.